Macam nilah cara diorang buli saya. :(
I get really pissed off when people who are getting bullied for long periods of time; they commit suicide or they try and injure themselves etc.. Why can't they simply just learn how to fight to defend themselves, ? and this is not for boys only but girls as well.. If your getting bullied my advice is learn how to fight ! Either check it up online, join a gym or a karate class or something.. Realistically people who say ''tell an adult'' or ''just ignore them'' will get you NOWHERE, it has happened many times and actually it gets even worse..
Thats what i think anyways.. Do you agree ?
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@ peanut 2 - I'm not encouraging violence, i'm not saying that you should go out and fight.. No what im saying is they should LEARN to DEFEND themselves ! Is that wrong ? According to me if every single person learn't how to fight to defend themselves, i think violence and bullying would decrease. And to answer your question, obviously i blame the murderer but thats completely different. Im not blaming the victim, what im saying is that he should be able to defend himself and then maybe he would NOT be bullied in the first place !
You make a good point. And to answer your question YES of course i would help ! I do help people that get bullied ! And you said and i quote ''There are, and have always been weaker people in the world. That doesn't make them less human, dumber, and it certainly isn't an invitation for you to bully them. Stand up for what is right. Stand up for those who cannot defend themselves''
That is my EXACT point. When they go to these karate classes or what ever, THEY ARE GOING TO LEARN HOW TO GAIN CONFIDENCE AND STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES ! And YES their are weak people out there i know, so are you saying that they're going stay weak ? I'm sorry sir but i disagree ! Who the hell says they should do nothing ? They should stand up for themselves and gain confidence etc..
@Al - You make a good point. And to answer your question YES of course i would help ! I do help people that get bullied ! And you said and i quote ''There are, and have always been weaker people in the world. That doesn't make them less human, dumber, and it certainly isn't an invitation for you to bully them. Stand up for what is right. Stand up for those who cannot defend themselves''
That is my EXACT point. When they go to these karate classes or what ever, THEY ARE GOING TO LEARN HOW TO GAIN CONFIDENCE AND STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES ! And YES their are weak people out there i know, so are you saying that they're going stay weak ? I'm sorry sir but i disagree ! Who the hell says they should do nothing ? They should stand up for themselves and gain confidence etc..
Well have you watched karate kid? Movie completely based on that and yah its awful to see people bullied! Theres this one kid in my class and whatever he says stupid or not people yell at him to shut up. Like seriously what has he done to you? yah and i agree telling an adult usually just pisses the bully off even more and gives them more reason to fight you and I mean there are situations that arnt nessessary for fighting but just to get your anger out and knock down your enemies ego is worth it all! lol
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I don't think fighting back with fists is the answer to that completely. When I was in grade 5 a new student came to school and some people decided it would be funny to bully him since he was fat. Since he was new some students (including myself sadly) decided it would be funny to bully the new kid for a while. Eventually however, i noticed what I was doing was horribly wrong and really cruel so I decided to help him out instead we did end up talking to teachers/bullies (I was the one that talked to the bullies). The end result was that they ended up stopping after teachers had a talk with them and everything went fine after that. Not all cases will be like that however some might have to result in violence I guess it just depends on the person who does the bullying.
So to answer your question I do not agree with learning how to fight to be the solution I believe people getting bullied should talk with teachers it normally does work unless the person doing the bullying really has a problem. In that case learning how to fight might be the only option.
